Questions and answers
What people ask before they share a page
Short, plain answers about accounts, prices, budgets and who can see what. Every answer describes how the site works today.
Using PairXO
Does she need an account to see my page?
No. You can make a guest password: it comes with a share link, and whoever opens the link or types the password on the guest page sees your page without signing up. If she already has a PairXO account, you can share with her username instead.
Can she see what things cost?
No. Estimated costs on date options, gift prices, ask amounts and any budget you set are shown to you only. The people you share with see the ideas and the gifts, never a number or a total.
What happens if her plan goes over my budget?
If you set a budget for someone, the page keeps it for you. When her picks add up to more than you planned, the last step tells her so in words and sends her back to choose something else. The plan cannot be sent until it fits. She never learns the figure.
How do I hear about a plan she sent?
It appears under Plans sent to you on your dashboard, with the day, her picks and her note. You accept or decline it there, and she sees the answer on the page. PairXO does not send email or push notifications yet, so check your dashboard.
Does PairXO take payments or book anything?
No. Reserving a gift or saying you will cover a gift card or cash is a mark on the page so nobody doubles up. The buying, the booking and any money changing hands happen outside PairXO.
Is it free?
Yes. There is no paid plan and no payment step: you create an account and a page, and you share it.
Privacy and access
Who can see my page?
Only you and the people you give access to. Anyone else who tries the address gets a page-not-found answer, so they cannot even tell the page exists. Each person sees only the sections you switched on for them, and nobody sees who else you shared with.
Can I take access back?
Yes, at any time, under Who can see my page. Revoking a username or a guest password works on her next click. You can also give a guest password a new value, which stops the old password and link for everyone who had them.
What do you store about me?
Your username, a one-way hash of your password, your email if you add one, what you put on your page and what the people you share with do on it. The privacy notice lists every item, including cookies and server logs.
How do I delete my account or my data?
There is no delete button yet. Send a request through the contact form from the email address on your account, or name your username, and we delete the account, the page and everything on it.
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Easier to see it than read about it
Try the demo with sample date ideas, or make your own page and share it with one person first.